Why Virgos Are Often Single Or Wish They Were
By Carol Allen
In my ebook, “Love Is In The Stars,” I make fun of Virgos. In fact, it’s the ONLY sign I make fun of.
I say about them:
– You’re incredibly organized.
– Your idea of a good time is cleaning out your closet.
– The spices in your spice rack are lined up alphabetically – and by color.
Now, I’d love to tell you I’m exaggerating, but the people that I know with the Sun, Moon, or rising sign of Virgo are like this. When I joke that their closets are organized by designer, they correct me by adding, “And thread count…”
In love, this compartmentalized thinking can be a good thing, or a not-so-good thing…
Virgo isn’t just a detail-oriented sign. It’s an idealistic sign. So, they don’t just want any old partner. They want the PERFECT partner. (Don’t we all?) So they
have to be careful of being too picky, picky, picky… Not always recognizing that the long checklist they’re insisting upon someone fulfilling is the thing that’s keeping them lost and ALONE in the woods of love. For this reason they often marry late (which works out okay, as they age more slowly than the rest of us and keep their youthful looks longer), or not at all.
The thing a Virgo is most attracted to in a romantic candidate is their MIND.
(And if their car is clean… I’m not kidding!)
Being ruled by Mercury, the planet of the intellect, and being a mutable sign, they have quick minds themselves and endless interests, so want a partner who can keep up – and even challenge them with stimulating conversation, and playful repartee.
“The thing a Virgo is most attracted to in a romantic candidate is their MIND.”
Because the realm of information and ideas is their favorite place to live, Virgos can have a hard time in the domain of the emotions. This manifests in them either not knowing how they feel, or not accepting how they feel.
It’s also a “do the right thing” and “don’t rock the boat” kind of sign, so much so that they struggle most in relationships with being fully THEMSELVES.
You see, not only are they idealistic about a partner’s checklist of qualities and life situation, they’re all the more so with THEIR OWN. So, they’ll “try” to be what they’re “supposed” to be, or be the best, most positive version of themselves possible – caring too much what people think, or how they look, or that they not upset anyone. They sweep what they really need or want, and what’s really going on in that chatty brain and sensitive heart of theirs, under their perfectly vacuumed rug.
Because it’s the natural sixth sign of the zodiac, Virgos focus on topics having to do with health, fitness, service, counseling, teaching, and animals – and are most comfortable being behind the scenes.
This is a shy, sensitive sign, prone to WORRY and anxiety. And it’s a feminine sign, causing even men of this sign to be passive and yielding – waiting for love to come and find them. And, once they’ve been hurt, they don’t want to stick their neck – or their heart – out again…
So if you’re drawn to a Virgo, you may need to send him VERY obvious signals, or ask him out first.
But it’s worth it, because a Virgo in love is a kind, giving, sweet partner who (unless otherwise afflicted) is ethical, wise, fair, and endlessly supportive, always striving to be the best they can be, and help the one they love be so as well.
You may not realize there are actually THREE constellations in the sign of Virgo that are distinct from one another and which add a great deal more detail into their personality and ability to relate than you’ve probably ever heard before.
To learn about these little-known constellations, and the twenty-four others, check out my audio program, “Signs Of Compatibility – A Celestial Guide To Understanding You And Your Relationships Using The TRUE Love Zodiac” by going here:
On “Signs Of Compatibility” I explain in great detail that it’s actually these smaller sub-signs within the twelve signs that really matter in love…
Not only that, the most amazing compatibility techniques in all of astrology look to these, and how they go together, or don’t go together.
In the program, I teach you how to run your own charts and do your own compatibility readings so you can be your own “arm chair astrologer.”
Understanding the people you love, as well as being compatible with them are both HUGELY important.
But there’s actually something far MORE important than compatibility when it comes to your love life.
And so I want you to pay BIG attention here, because this ONE idea can save you tons of time and heartache… and help you to never need to call “romantic roadside assistance” again.
Just because you’re compatible with a man does NOT mean you’ll be happy with him.
You can have fabulous chemistry with a jerk.
You can laugh at all the same things with a drunk.
You can agree on where to go and what to do with a man who can’t be faithful.
You can share political and religious views with a control freak – or a screamer…
And so please focus on something else above and beyond compatibility when it comes to making big future plans or giving a man your exclusive time and attention…
Focus on a little thing we Vedic astrologers call “Capacity.”
That’s right – a man has to be a GOOD MAN with a HIGH CAPACITY for being in a relationship with anyone, before he can be successfully in a relationship with you.
No matter how compatible you are.
Do not make the oh-so-classic mistake of giving your heart and soul to a man before you know him well – and before you know what he’s capable of.
Think of it like this…
When you need a professional piano player, it’s wise to pick one with all ten fingers.
Finding a piano player with only four fingers ensures he’ll never play Chopin’s Nocturnes.
You have to find a man with ten fingers!
But so many women don’t…
They find a man with only four fingers, and then when he can’t play Chopin and can only play “Chopsticks” they think it’s because HE DOESN’T LOVE THEM.
But it has nothing to do with how much he loves her…
It has to do with his CAPACITY to love anyone.
Now, I don’t want you to think after reading this that I’m telling you compatibility doesn’t matter.
If you find a man who has HIGH capacity, but you don’t have chemistry… or you don’t laugh at the same things… or you can’t be fully yourself with him, then you won’t be happy, either.
So hold out for BOTH.
Make sure to find a healthy man, who’s the right man for you!
To know all the telltale signs of a man who has a LOW capacity for love, check out the most important chapter of my ebook, “Love Is In The Stars” – Chapter Five – which explains how to know almost instantly if a man is good at relationships or not.
(It has an in-depth checklist of how to assess a man’s emotional maturity, and make sure he’s a good gamble! Think of all the time and pain this could save you. Be reading Chapter Five in mere minutes or learn more by clicking at the link below.)
Or – even better – run a “Relationship Capacity Report” on him which will tell you all about his personality, and how much he can show up for ANY woman.
You see, one Virgo will be VERY different from another… and one might be the best guy ever, while another might only SEEM great, but lead to only heartache and disappointment. But it can take months and even years sometimes to figure this out.
That’s what I love about astrology – you can figure this out quickly. And the techniques of Vedic astrology – the oldest system in the world, used for generations to arrange marriages – holds the key.
See how incredible this wisdom is, and how it can save you TONS of time and trouble here: